Who the hell is this texting me at 1:36 in the morning? You know, the one who be calling right when you about to fall asleep. Steady saying everything so he can just "creep". Sadly many of us may know this scenario all too well for it to be a joke. The funny thing is I've entertained these types of shenanigans for a good portion of my adult life. Finding myself lost at the middle of a crossroad between wanting to satisfy my urge to indulge in the sensual bliss that some good head and big dick penetration can bring and the fear of the emotional after burn that a frivolous risk like this comes with. In the past, my emotional immaturity would motivate me to give in to temptation and deal with the other shit that comes with it later. Continually putting it off until later, then finding myself stuck with heavy emotional baggage trying to navigate my way out of confusing & frustrating relationship patterns.
Now don't get me wrong, I know that sex can be a magical experience when two spiritually and emotionally mature individuals come together and engage in a harmonious energy exchange. But in 2015 where it seems like everyone is about that "YOLO" life and heart felt communication gets lost in translation via text messages , connections like that are hard to come by. I've come to realize that it takes one to go deep within the core of their being and do some soul reconnecting. But like Sweet Georgia Brown would say "ain't nobody got time for that". We live in a microwave, fast food, slow money don't get no money type of culture where stopping to do any self inquiry is a fleeting afterthought. Even though yoga is now mainstream in our society, people are more concerned about how good their ass looks in their lululemon stretch pants as they hold Pigeon pose than the inner transformation that could be taking place.
Now that the year is coming to an end some of us are asking those deep reflective question and wanting to make a change. We are tired of the same old frustrating patterns that are no longer serving us but we don't know where to start unraveling the knots.
In my new vlog series, Yoni Magic for Single Ladies I share my orgasmic celibacy journey and my special f#@k boy detox formula. I hope this will inspire you.
For Single Ladies Who've Considered Orgasmic Celibacy When The F#@k Boy Wouldn't Grow Up